Thursday, July 26, 2012

Teaching ESL I mean English to Students from Italy

I had a fun day today teaching English ( American) to a bunch of teenager students from Italy who came to USA in Saint Mary's College   to study American culture and language .  They will be here in the San Francisco Bay area for only two weeks this summer.  Every morning they will come to the class and then  go to visit celebrated places in  the San Francisco  area.



As a non native English speaker I was going back to those early days down the memory lane  when I could not explain all that was swimming in my head.  My tongue was not ready.

 The same thing is happening with these kids and sometimes  interesting even hilarious things are cropping up.  For example, I asked some one- " Is she taking a break?"- showing the picture of a lady who was sitting on a bench , kind of in a relaxed mood with a Starbuck coffee in her hand

 One of my student replied  with her brows crossed -" Break?  No she is no break... fine , she is not taking any break.  She is all whole".

They are a cute bunch of kids and I am looking forward for what happens tomorrow.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Bead Soup Packet

My Bead soup packet arrived today.  What a surprise in the mail box !  These days the mail box is not that exciting for me, most of the exciting news come in e mail form or at the face book page.  But today it was different.

My bead soup partner Debbie Davis sent me such cool things that I can hardly wait to play with them.


Oh, the clasp is so pretty and here is the focal

Deb also sent me the most beautiful green agate beads, and a string of heishi beads that will be very useful too.



There are some pretty brass findings too.  Now the colors of the green beads are so pretty,( my photos have not done the right justice to them)  I am feeling like going shopping and getting  a blouse to go with that green , or may be many colors will go with it.  But I just love that lime green for these summer days.

Thank you thank you thank you Deb, I am very happy for what you have sent. 

I am going to talk about what I had sent to her in my next post.  Now let's relish this soup.

 You may wonder what this bead soup thing is?  Well it was started and is  organized by an amazing jewelry artist named Lori Anderson.  Visit her blog because you'll be refreshed.  Any way, this is the 6th Bead soup party where more than three hundred jewelry artists all over the world are taking part.  Each one is matched with a partner.  I did not know my partner Deb Davis before and what a pleasant surprise knowing her and her amazing work.

Deb sent me some beads and I did to her  and now our challenge is to make something with them and then reveal them in our future blogs.  Our revealing day is August 11th 2012.

It is a lot of fun indeed and I give my heart felt thanks to Lori for coming up with this unique Bead Soup  idea and taking the trouble of organizing this massive project.


Thursday, June 28, 2012

Wire work Pendant 
Today I created a new wire work pendant.

  I was so excited to get this tutorial from a very talented wire artist Donna Spadafore, or Gailavira.- Check out her awesome tutorials if you are interested to be wired up.  I mean literally, you may get all wired up, ...this is quite  some addiction.

 After I bought them and  printed out the tutorials, it was past midnight and I could hardly sleep,   I was just waiting for the morning.

 I know it is frustrating when things do not  happen the way it should happen, the wires to behave , or my wrist to turn the way it must,  yet there is fun...huge fun... like we had had  when we were little making sculptures.

I fiddled with it for a long time and finally  here is one of my  finished products.



Some of them may go to my Etsy store soon.  And that's  another" tomorrow's project".

I wrapped some coins too.

 Which ones can you identify?  They are from different parts of the world.  I am going to reveal the answers soon.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

My Bead Soup Partner

I came to know my Bead Soup partner, Debbie Davis  from her blog and her wonderful work from her etsy shop.

I am so excited to be part of this Bead Soup Party.  This is my third time and each time I came to know such wonderful artists through this blog hopping.

I wrote to Deb that I'll find some thing that'll go with her style.  She reminded me - are n't we supposed to think out of the box?  .venture out of our known territory!  That's right.

Here is one of her awesome  art.

So this evening ( well it's past 10:10pm now) I am into finding what can I give her...  I am supposed to send her a cool clasp and a nice focal bead.  Then there are other beads and findings to go  as side dishes

Nope, I am not going to show you.  Deb should get it first... But do come back after July 2nd , we should both get our packets  by then.

And we are both going to show off our finished product by August 11, 2012.

Lori, our leader, who  takes all the trouble to co ordinate this humongous project with three hundred- plus blog- hopping- jewelry artists all over the world,  gave a great idea today.  It  is how to get rid of the CAPTCHA monster from your blog.  And I did it finally.  Thank you Lori.

 Now you don't have to prove that you are not a dumb robot any more to leave a comment in my blog:).

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Weight Watcher Wisdom



 Wednesday, April 25, 2012

What Weight Watching wisdom did I gain today?

Yeh! I dropped 3.3lbs in a week!

For my birthday, my gift to myself was a membership in Weight Watcher.  I also presented myself a book named FRUITS and VEGETABLES A- Z. 



  And yes, I did try two recipes from this book. The mushroom muffin pizza  turned out really nice.

Muffin Pizza with Mozzarella and Mushrooms


It was a challenging week for me because number one, it was my birthday and the food in Benehana with all the juggling of the Japanese chef was so fabulous … but hey, how many Points Plus?



The next day I had  a craft show,  All day I was kind of starved with only a couple of granola bars and string cheese sticks, so at the end when I reached home, I was feeling like I could eat the whole house,  I was so famished.

But then there were four days left to straighten up and be sober.

What I learned this week is the value of awareness.  I was aware seeing what is going in my body and documenting it, even though I was 12 points over…I still lost 3 lbs in a week!

I was aware that late afternoons are my week points.  I found one solution –  a latte with fat free milk.  The shot of caffeine and the goodness of milk just can pick me up.

Today in our meeting the topic was – accepting and being nice to myself.  There are times when I’ll fall off the wagon.  I do feel “What the heck”…and grab another chocolate chip cookie, another Hershie bar.

That is when it is important to be loving to yourself, not criticizing.  How would you nourish yourself?  plan ahead, and if you fall, dust off and move on, not quit .

We talked about stressful situations.  My stressful situations regarding food are-

Entertaining guests.  You want to give them good, tasty food, show off your culinary expertise and they are not necessarily low fat ones

Answer – have a bowl of fresh veggies and a great dip with yogurt.
Have a bowl of colorful fruit salad.

Being a guest – when you don’t have much control what is being served.

Answers:
* Plan ahead and budget 15 or 20 points for that.  Spread the whole day with that plan. 

*Incorporate exercise points to buy some extra calories!

*Use the 3 fork bite rule.  Remember the 1st bite is for tasting, 2nd one for savoring, third one,  judging. Is it worth continuing with  more bites if you have to sit down and count the point value?  Possibly not.  Brain wash yourself if in doubt :)

The quote of the day:

Food can make our taste buds happy
It can not make us happy

Food can distract us from our pain
It can not take away our pain.

-        Author unknown.

I was asked – what is my strategy for next week?

It is not to miss a single meeting and I’ll share what I learn  in my weekly Wednesday blog.  I commit.  Next week I’ll not be able to attend on Wednesday, but I’ll go to the meeting  on Saturday. But do come on  Wednesday for this blog …there will be something regarding this topic.  And I’ll be so happy if you comment and put your input too.

Do drop by if you are in the same boat making the same journey.  We can’t do it alone, my friend.

By the way – You may like to read a related blog : TheHealing Apatite- the story about Anjuli.




Saturday, March 3, 2012

The Bead Soup Blog Hop

Yeh! finally the  auspicious day of the bead soup party has arrived . Here is my dish to share:


But before that let me show my ingredients that I received from my partner Alicia.

















I was so happy to see the amethyst stone. Now this will give me an opportunity to practice the wire wrapping that I am trying to accomplish.

This was my first attempt for this kind of work.
In the beginning I used just a silver chain for this necklace...nah it did not quite do it.  Then a few pearls and stones with wire work...still it did not look quite right on me.


So I used the amethyst stone chips she sent me and added some more from my stash.  It looked right.  At least to me.

Last Friday around  1 pm I was done with the necklace.  So I wanted to do a matching pair of earrings

 and  then headed to a baby shower party Saturday morning.  Yes, some people  did notice and were kind enough to shower me with compliments.




I am so anxious to see what Alicia made with the packet that I sent to her.  She is a very creative jewelry artist.  You may find her blog and shop here. 

And  please be sure to check all the other members who took part in this Bead soup party.

 My heartfelt thanks to Lori Anderson who hosted this party. 

 It was a lot of work for you,Lori,  a big  THANK YOU for all that you have done behind the stage and those email reminders you sent  to keep us on track.

It was fun.




Thursday, March 1, 2012

An Interview with an author, beader, philanthropist- Melody Mac Duffee



I came to know about Melody Mac Duffee and the Somanya project from an article I read in a Beading magazine.  The year was 2008.  I bought some beads from her etsy store  that the African artisans made.  I made some earrings and they were well loved in craft shows and beading parties.

                             Melody and her crew in the Somanya Project

From then on we kept in touch and  a friendship grew between Melody and me.  Recently I came across her book – Lacy Wire Jewelry and was totally impressed by her jewelry making and teaching skill.  I feel it is a great honor to know Melody in person and wanted to share that with you all.  Here is the interview:


Melody, I came to know about you and your Soul of Somanya project from an article in a beading magazine, but I forgot which one.  Beads and Button, 2008,  I think. Do you remember?

It was the issue that came out in August of 2008, which was probably the September or October issue. That article saved Soul of Somanya from an early extinction. Up until then, we’d been paying expenses and wages out of credit card cash advances, along with the income from a few individual sales to friends and family and couple of small trunk shows. But when that article came out, we started getting online orders, enough to keep going for awhile.

 When did you start this project and what motivated you in the first place?  Tell us a little about that.

The initial impetus was an email I received one morning asking me to come and teach a group of Krobo bead makers in the little Ghanaian town of Somanya how to make fancier jewelry out of their beads. Traditionally, the Krobo people wear their beads very simply on a piece of string or raffia. But they’d somehow gotten hold of (or maybe seen online?) an issue of Bead & Button Magazine that had one of my designs in it, and they wanted to learn to do fancier techniques.

                                                        [Photo: Bride's Wedding Jewelry].
I jumped at the chance—it sounded like an interesting adventure. Little did I know that I’d fall head-over-heels in love with the people and their culture. But it was seeing the poverty, and seeing how cheerfully the people bear it, that got me truly motivated. It’s beyond anything I had ever been able to imagine, and I wanted very much to try to help bring a little prosperity to them.

I remember reading later from one of your newsletters and also from that article the hurdles that you had to overcome. Tell us a little about the agony and the ecstasy in this journey.

I have heard so many people say that Africa will break your heart, and I can see why they say that, though it can also fill your heart. Early on, the experience seemed mostly like a wonderfully exotic adventure, as if I were a character in some latter-day Joseph Conrad novel. I’ve always been a reader; I’ve always loved fiction and exciting stories. But this was the first time in my life that I didn’t feel the need to read; the first time that my own life had ever been more interesting to me than what I could find in books. I mean, how many middle-aged white women from Mobile, Alabama ever become African Queens? I couldn’t believe it was me that this was happening to! I spent a lot of time pinching myself on that first visit


But I’ve come to realize over time how often I’ve misinterpreted things that I experienced during the time I’ve spent in Somanya, and how often my own words and intentions have been misunderstood by some of the people there. So reality has set in. Don’t get me wrong—I love it there, and I wouldn’t trade the experiences I’ve had there for anything else I’ve ever done in my life. But where there is so little in the way of a common frame of reference, there will always be misunderstandings. And where there is so little prosperity to go around, there will always be fierce competition for what little there is, and this can often lead to jealousy—even treachery. So there have been some heartbreaks 

For example, I went to Africa to give free classes. It took me six months to raise enough money to buy all the tools and supplies I would need to teach there, and a lot of people here in the States worked very hard to get me over there fully equipped. Yet the very first thing the first group of bead makers asked me was, “What are you going to give us besides classes?” Needless to say, I was a bit taken aback by the attitude I thought this reflected. It wasn’t until years later that I found out that, while I wasn’t charging anything for the classes, the young man who was organizing things was—and charging a substantial fee at that. So the bead makers were regarding their participation as an investment of more than just their time. Understandably, they wanted to be sure they were going to get their money’s worth. It’s not as if they can afford hobbies. This was serious business to them.

The spokesman for another group told me flat out that they knew I was the head of some big charity agency, and that I had money I was supposed to be distributing among them. They were very angry because they believed I was keeping that money for myself and/or the young men who had organized the classes. I can only guess how they came to that belief. All I could do was explaining to them that I was just a regular person, coming there on my own. They seemed at the time, after a good bit of discussion, to accept my word for it. But that group ended up not taking the classes, so maybe not.

Anyway, I had to work very hard to win the trust of the bead makers who did end up taking the classes, but we were on good terms by the time I left. On my last day there, I promised them that, while I had no experience in marketing, I would do my best to sell their products in the U.S. Moreover, I would send them a 10% royalty on the retail price of any of their original designs I was able to sell

I kept that promise. But, looking back, I realize that I never warned them that this might only ever be one or two or three pieces. It’s quite possible that they assumed I would be selling dozens, or even hundreds, of those designs, and that they would be receiving large chunks of money from me. Of course the reality was that I was trying to sell those very tribal-looking pieces to mostly middle-aged-and-older southern women in an extremely conservative part of the U.S. Not surprisingly, they didn’t sell well. And the lack of the flow of cash that the bead makers had apparently expected eventually led to a breakdown of trust with some of them.

It broke my heart. It still hurts like crazy to know that some of them believed—that some of them may still believe—that I cheated them out of money that should have been theirs. If I could go back and do it over, I would make very sure that they understood how little they should expect from my inexperienced attempts at marketing their goods. But that’s water under the bridge. Maybe someday I’ll be able to find a way to re-establish that lost trust, and somehow help them to become more prosperous. I hope so. I’d give a lot to make that happen.

So that’s one of the kinds of things that have made this project so challenging. Another has been what the people there call being on “Africa-time.” Everything moves very slowly in Africa. For example, we’ve waited for as long as six months for our orders for beads to be made and delivered. That makes doing business on the world market almost impossible. It’s one of the things that eventually made us realize that we needed to hire a separate staff of jewelry-makers; so that we could supervise production and make sure we’d be able to get the products we needed when we needed them.

Another problem has been the expenses and timing problems we’ve had with trans-Atlantic shipping. There is so much corruption in the Ghanaian postal service and Customs offices that, unless we want to bribe officials to do what they are already being paid to do, we have to pay exorbitant FedEx prices to ship supplies over to Somanya—well over $400.00 for a little fifteen-pound box. Otherwise the packages and their contents just mysteriously disappear.

You are a beader. Do you make beads, too?

I’ve been beading for many years, but I’ve never made beads. I leave that to the experts!

I did not know you did such elaborate knit wire work. You won’t believe it, but just from the Amazon" look inside" section I learned so much about your project. This book is amazing. I ordered it and have not gotten it yet, but when I get it and try a project, I'll send you a picture. When did you start this lacy wire knitting?  Do you still knit with beads?

The techniques in my Lacy Wire Jewelry book aren’t really knitting at all, though you’re certainly not the first to think so. The projects have that look, and I did start out as a crocheter. But these techniques actually call for various looping and twisting techniques that evolved over a period of years when I was working at a wonderful bead store here in Mobile (called Knot Just Beads).

                                                               Three Lacy Pieces


 I don’t know why, but I’ve always been drawn to delicate, lacy, symmetrical filigrees. All the more ironic that I ended up co-founding a project that is based on large, funky, rough, in-your-face colorful beads. I had to make a huge creative leap in order to work with the Krobo beads. It was over a year before I felt that I was really starting to get a look that I liked.

What other kind of jewelry-making techniques interest you?

I’ve done a little of everything, but once I started working with wire, I was hooked. It’s so versatile, and its possibilities are infinite. I never get tired of coming up with new ways of using wire.

Tell us a little about your artistic life and any thing else you want to share.

My artistic life has pretty much been pushed aside for the last four years to make room for running the business side of Soul of Somanya. I’ve been—I’ve had to be—pretty obsessed with the project to be able to put in enough hours and to give it the kind of attention it’s required of me. I’m not even sure it’s healthy, if having balance in life is the standard to judge by. But I’ve loved it! It’s taken hold of my heart and fed my spirit in a way it’s never been fed before. And while running the project has cut way down on artistic time, it certainly has demanded that I be creative in other ways. In this economy, I’ve had to keep coming up with new strategies for keeping our products moving and keeping enough money coming in so that we can pay our staff of young jewelry artisans regularly. It’s endlessly challenging.

 How often do you go to Africa, and how long do you stay there?

I’ve only gone three times so far, for a total of a little over four months. It’s expensive, of course—not just the flights, but the fact that, to really make a trip worthwhile, I have to buy a lot of supplies to take over with me and a lot of beads to bring back along with the jewelry I’m transporting on my return. So it takes a long time to raise the kind of money I need to make everything work. It’s also extremely difficult to get away. It’s a lot to ask of volunteers that they come over to my apartment three times a week to pack and ship orders for our products, but we can’t afford to shut down while I’m over there. We need that cash flow. And anyway, we would lose a lot of momentum. We’d lose customers.

If it were up to me, I’d go three or four times a year, or I’d stay a lot longer when I do go. I love it there. I’m homesick for Ghana all the time

Is there one experience that sparkles like a focal locket in this process of working with two cultures from two continents?

The single thing that has meant the most to me personally is the relationship I’ve formed with our young project manager over there, Arkuh Bernard Tettey. He was only twenty-five when we started the project, and he’s one of the most remarkable people I’ve ever known. He’s like a son to me now. I miss him every day

As for those sparkling focal experiences, it’s more like a string of smaller moments. For example, I’ll never forget the look of wonder on one of our jewelry artisans’ faces when she finished the first piece she had made using a very challenging new technique. It was as if she just couldn’t believe that she had made something so beautiful! It brought tears to my eyes. And there was the excited joy with which, on the last day of my second trip, the artisans all clustered around and presented me with french fries they had made themselves, along with—treasure of treasures—an unopened bottle of catsup! Apparently they thought I must be missing the food I was used to—I wasn’t, but it was such an amazingly sweet thing for them to have done. I still don’t know where they managed to find that bottle of catsup.

And then there was the first time Manye Mamiyo, the queen mother who became my African mother when she officially inducted me into her family, came all by herself, without her entourage, to visit me early one morning. Instead of insisting on the formality that had always characterized our meetings before, she simply opened her arms, inviting me to give her a hug. That was a very special moment for me.

Oh, and I remember an afternoon on my first trip when several of the bead makers and I put our heads together for several hours trying to invent a crimp bead that they would be able to make for themselves once the ones I’d brought with me ran out. Together we finally came up with one that worked. That was a wonderfully triumphant moment. There have been so many of those.

I know how valuable your time is. My heartfelt thanks to you for giving me part of it.

Here is  one of the earrings I made using your African beads and the ear  wire work in African symbol means Bravery and Valor - right?


Anindita, the debt is on our side. By publishing this interview on your blog, you are helping to spread the word about Soul of Somanya; helping us to find new customers and supporters. That’s advertising we couldn’t possibly afford to pay for. Thank you so much for doing this.

Namaste, Melody.























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